A story.

Hello again my lovely readers! So It almost June... which means its almost my 2nd WEDDING anniversary as well as my dear loves birthday. Mr. H will be 24! I met him when he was a wee lad of just 20 years old. Would you like to hear the story? Its umm Magical Monday....

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Many moons ago...sometime in the dark months of January in the year twentyten, I found my self at a friends house. I was scheduled to have neck surgery to insert a rod in my neck I the next few weeks, so I had this heinous neck brace I had to wear 24/7 (no joke) unless I was showering. It was awful. Well, anyways. Because of this neck brace I couldn't drive a car because apparently that's dangerous? who knew? So I was playing with Miss Jerika (Callans cousin who lived at his house) and I didn't have a ride home. Oh, and Jerika was 14 at the time, and me 17.9 (almost 18) so Callan thought "oh she's cute but I cant rob the cradle..." So he was hesitant about giving me a ride home... which, my hero Mamanaka (Melanie) insisted he do it anyway. She knew what she was doing.
So then starts the adventure of the LONG drive home (30 minutes give or take).

So here we are driving along in an automobile...duh duh duh duuuhhh

And Callan of course is kind, and gentlemanly. I sat directly behind him and asked if I could paly with his hair..."of course" he says.

Well after talking about music and  playing with hair we finally made it to my Grandmas.
We said our goodbyes. Callan (my manly massage therapist) quickly told me that if I needed anything after my surgery (massaging, scar massage, etc...) that he would gladly help with that,what a ladies man, am I right?

Smiling to myself I carried on. A few weeks later, we decided to meet up (a date.. what?!) and get to know each other, and of course "massaging" so you know...we had our first date on Febraury 1st. We spent the whole day together. We went to Sonic, where we randomly discovered we both like jalapenos on our Chicken Teriyaki Subway sandwich. HAHA Then we went to the dinosaur museum (BEST DATE EVER)...then we went to his old house (where I first met him, and they had just moved) we went into the movie theater room, and watched Shaun of the Dead! Then he grabbed my hand, and said "I know, its soon, like really soon, but I really like you, and willyoubemygirlfriend?"
Needless to say I was shocked, mostly because how could someone so amazing want to be with me? And especially after just one day?

But, he "just knew" that I was the one, and so he asked. And I said YES!

The rest is history....

I love Callan so much, and I don't have any idea how I got so lucky. He is a beautiful human being. He is kind, loving, giving, smart, strong, perfect, protective, handsome, brilliant, and full of bliss. He is so patient and the best husband and dad. I can't even handle how much I love him!!


Anyways... just a story and a beautiful memory that I wanted to share.

Until next time...

No more promises... clearly I can't keep them... or don't.. Whatever

Well I am a slacker... and a liar, nope I don't even have any excuses as to why I didn't post about the other amazing moms in my life, other than I suck. Haha, well those other moms deserve at least SHOUT OUT!

So heres to you ladies!
The lovely Melanie Muranaka (Callans mummy) she is fabulous and I love her dearly. Thank you for being so kind, loving, and open minded! We love you mamanaka! To the stars and back.

To the fantabulous Tanna Nixon (my mum) I love you more than words can explain momma! You are who I strive to be like. You are so generous, and have such a big heart, and you, mom, are the very best friend a girl could ask for.

Alright, phew.... sorry that wasn't as awesome as it should have been, but I really am a lazy ass. Seriously though, I really am. When Archer is asleep, instead of cleaning I lay down and get on Pinterest. Gahhh.. Pinterest will be the slow death of me. Even when I'm busy I am on there... What has my life come to? I find myself getting stupider by the day, there you go see? STUPIDER isn't even a word... or is it?

So, my Mothers Day was really nice. I got to sleep in, and till noon-thirty I might add. And then Callan, baby Archer, Lance (Callans bromance bestie), and I went to Texas Road House. Pretty sweet shin-dig. I always forget how tasty that place is....Then we came home and cuddled and watched.... DRUM ROLL PLEASE.............
VAMPIRE DIARIES!
Guess who I got hooked on TVD?!? That's right... my love. Mr. H Goodness... I love when I am right, because TVD is amazing and he now knows it for a fact. And guess what?! We are almost done with season one.
So yes, I would say my Mums day was pretty amazing, and successful.

This week honestly has been a blur. And now its Friday. And I get Callan all to my self. Except tonight I have to share with Otey and Miller. But they coo. We are having a delicious and lovely BBQ hosted by yours truly. And no... Otey and Miller aren't their real names. And Callan goes by Harding... and everytime I say Callan everyone gets confused. But I'm Hardings wife or Aubrie... I am glad I have an identity outside of my marriage...Haha

Here are some pics from Archers April photo shoot with Nana Tanna

Until Next Time...

Mums Day

So last year for Fathers Day I did a post every week about the best father figures in mine and Callans life. This year for Mothers Day (although I am a tad bit late on the week by week thing) I figured I would do the same kind of thing. But obviously in less time since I am a huge blogging slacker!!!
Well first off I want to start off by saying how amazing motherhood is. Its simple, yet complicated, rewarding and worrisome. Stressful, constant and beautiful all at the same time. A mothers job is never over. I have heard that said over and over again, but I never really "got it" until I became a mommy myself. Even after Archer was is bed last night I found myself making mental notes on what needs to happen the next day ie...

Add diapers and wipes to shopping list
Make Dr. Appointment for Archer and self(Lord help me)
Change Archers sheets
Get baby sunscreen
Baby Tylenol
Butt Paste
Research ways to make baby less scared of BIG bathtub
and then of course it transitioned into other random thoughts....


When do babys start talking?
I hope Archer doesn't wake up soon, what am I saying he sleeps through the night now...when did he start doing that again? Oh ya... 6 months. What a smart little guy I have...
I want another baby...
No I don't... that would be awful!
I love the name Nigel...
Why didn't I name Archer Nigel, jeeze.... is it too late to legally apply for a name change?
No no hes an Archer...
I miss having a baby bump...
And finally sleep and at 2 am Archer wanted to get up and eat! Honestly kid... I guess that's what I get for thinking good thought about you...

Anyways, my point is a Mums job is never done, even if your just thinking about what needs to happen the next day, or if your kids poop is too runny, you're still spending your time and energy thinking about the carbon copy sleeping peacefully in the next room.
Needless to say, as a mom I have began to appreciate other moms a whole lot more. Its a tough job.

So for our first featured mom I am doing a mom who I think is a very beautiful person inside and out. This woman does it all, and then some. And yes, she is ALL THAT AND A BAG OF CHIPS thankyouverymuch. My beautiful Grandma Gail is the most kindhearted and loving human being on this planet. She is my best friend. She would do anything for anyone, and I have no idea where I would be or who I would be without her. She is a very good mummy. She started at the ripe old age of 17 with my very own motherdearest. She has told me so many stories of her struggles and trials raising a baby by herself at such a young age. She had 3 more babies after that, and they are all beautifully done if I do say so myself.
My grandma is all about family. Family ALWAYS comes first. And I love that about her. She is always there for me no matter what, and always knows exactly what to say to make everything okay. I call her every day, just to talk. And I always call her when I have issues. She is nothing short of phenomenal.
Thank you for being the best MOM, GRANDMA,GREAT GRANDMA, GRANDMOTHER-IN-LAW, LIFE COACH, PERSONAL MOTIVATOR, SISTER, AUNT, DAUGHTER, WIFE, AND FRIEND that anyone could ask for.
I love you Grandma!